Birthdays are the best days of the year. For me at least. Today is mine and I have been looking at the rules I live by, organize my behavior and too often judge others with.
You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else. – Albert Einstein
That is a game worth playing in my view. The other aspect is how to play the game.
A goal is an object or objective toward which play is direced in order to score. This definition resulted in my discovering when you collapse goal with score… you lose play. If you are not having any fun, no one near you will either.
One more part of this puzzle to keep in mind sometimes things don’t work they way we expect, want, hope or believe they should. Whenever something doesn’t work out the way I think it should or thought it would, instead of thinking that something went wrong or is wrong, I see it as something that went unexpectedly well, but for reasons that are not yet apparent.
The overlay and background is to ask ‘how’ instead of ‘why’ questions. There is no if, there is no because or why. There is no when or tomorrow. There is only ‘is.’ “Is now.” If you must ask a question, ask “How?”
I think you should celebrate your birthday daily. If you are ready to start a serious conversation about ending the pain, turning around and returning to the top of the mountain you KNOW you can achieve, visit my favorite site. You will start the tour if your life.